Personalized Dating Coaching, online or in-person

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  • How do I stop repeating old dating patterns?

  • I’ve been out of the dating scene so long, how do I even begin?

  • Why am I attracting the wrong partners?

  • Why do I keep getting rejected?

  • What should i put on my dating profile?

  • What if I’m not very (attractive successful, fun, sexy, smart)?

  • How do I move from chatting online to dating in person?

 

There are countless dating resources at the tip of your fingers, but...

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If you’re struggling with any of the questions above, you’re not alone. Nearly half of singles in the US feel dating is harder now than it was 10 years ago, and two-thirds are dissatisfied with their dating lives. The reality is that meeting and connecting with the right person has become increasingly more complicated. While tech dating has fast-tracked access for casual hook-ups, the pathway for creating deep and meaningful intimacy has seemingly become more elusive.

Countless articles, podcasts and books offer a wealth of tips, tools and tricks. So why are so many singles still struggling? Help that is written for the masses can only address challenges at the surface. We all enter the dating world with our individual strengths, histories, patterns and vulnerabilities that influence how we approach dating and how we show up to new potential partners. If you’ve been feeling stuck it’s time to get personal.

 

through our individualized dating coaching, you will:

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  • Strengthen your relationship with yourself

  • Gain confidence in bringing your authentic self to the dating world

  • Learn to navigate the 5 stages of dating with joy and ease

  • Understand your dating patterns and change those that no longer serve you

  • Clarify your “non-negotiables” and where you should and shouldn’t compromise

  • Discover your attachment style and learn how it shows up in your relationships

  • Uncover and rewrite your stories about dating and relationships

  • Heal past relationship wounds and release unhealthy connections to exes

  • Learn how to attract the right dates in person and online

  • Feel confident knowing where and how to connect with your perfect match

 

90 day dating coaching program, online or in-person

This one-on-one coaching program provides you with insights and skills to elevate what’s working in your dating life and overhaul what’s not. Connect to the best, authentic version of you and ensure that you’re presenting that to the world. You’ll become crystal clear on what you want as a partner and why those qualities are the perfect match for you. Most importantly, you’ll gain the confidence and tools to attract that person and forge a meaningful connection with them. Program includes: six 90 minute sessions, attachment assessment, exercises and tools to enhance learning between sessions, and email support throughout the duration of the program.

 
 
Lori Kret, LCSW, BCC

Lori Kret, LCSW, BCC

  • Focus 1: Learning from History

    • Identify patterns, explore where you thrive and where you get stuck, and what stories you carry from past dating experiences that get in the way now.

  • Focus 2: Exploring your Presence

    • Clarify who your best self is and who you want to be in relationships, assess how you present yourself in person and what others see, create your internal elevator pitch to keep your search focused on the right partner.

  • Focus 3: Uplifting your Sexuality

    • Deepen your connection with your body and your authentic sexual self, feel more attractive and define what you’re attracted to, clarify your sexual “nevers”, “maybes” and “must-haves”.

  • Focus 4: Auditing your Picker

    • Understand where are you’re aiming and why, discover what to prioritize in your potential partners for the best fit.

  • Focus 5: Understanding The Pursuit

    • Learn to successfully navigate early dating dynamics, discover your attachment style and how to harness it in relationships, enhance dating and conversation skills to build connection and attraction.

  • Focus 6: Forging the Bond

    • Develop insight and skills to make it past the 3 month mark and create a lasting connection.

Fee for 90 day program: $3000

 

Customized online Dating Coaching

Dating coaching services can be customized to meet your wants and needs. Customized coaching can address a specific aspect of dating you’d like to enhance, or one particular problem that keeps arising. Hourly sessions are available at $165.

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